8 Clear Signs of Lying in a Marriage

8 Clear Signs of Lying in a Marriage

I recently went through a marriage filled with deception and betrayal. This experience has caused me immense pain, but it has also allowed me to grow and learn valuable lessons. As I reflect on this painful journey, I have identified 8 signs that indicate my husband has been lying.

1.Contradictory statements on multiple occasions

Whenever I raised questions or pressed him for details about certain events, his answers were always ambiguous and evasive. When I asked the same question a second time, he would provide a response inconsistent with his previous one, but he would always explain it away as forgetfulness and emphasize his genuine love for me. The repeated contradictions in his words made me question, “Was it ever really love?”

2.He behaves more lovingly when others are around

I noticed for a while that whenever we attended social events or spent time with friends, he would tightly hold my hand, affectionately embrace me, and show deep affection towards me. He would care about whether I needed anything, pay attention to my feelings and needs. However, when we were alone, his attitude would be completely different. He became distant and cold.
I started to question whether our intimacy was only for the sake of appearances and superficial interactions.

when we were alone, his attitude would be completely different. He became distant and cold

3.Lack of transparency in his life

We used to share everything, discussing the ups and downs of life, and each other’s joys and sorrows. However, over time, he became increasingly silent. He no longer proactively shared his plans and schedules with me, and even stopped sharing details about his personal life.

4.Deleting communication records

I discovered that he started deleting call logs, text messages, and social media messages with other people. His communication records were always blank.

His communication records were always blank

5.Frequent unusual expenses with strange excuses

His bills consistently showed strange expenses, and the explanations he provided were always far-fetched, even deflecting and trying to avoid my questions.

6.Physical detachment

We used to be so close, embracing and kissing each other every morning before leaving. But later on, whenever I tried to get close to him, seeking that familiar intimacy, he would always avoid my touch or push me away with various excuses. I started to doubt my own charm and attractiveness, while also questioning if he had grown tired of me and was seeking satisfaction elsewhere.

Physical detachment

7.He always takes from you

I noticed that he always sought to fulfill his own needs in our relationship, without considering my feelings and needs. This made me start to question whether he genuinely cared about me or if he was just using me.

8.He always avoids discussing the future with you

Whenever I brought up our future, he would always evade and avoid the topic. I longed to share my dreams and aspirations with him, hoping that we could plan our life journey together. However, he showed no interest in these matters and even appeared impatient.

He always avoids discussing the future with you

These signs are not absolute, nor do they imply that every marriage will experience the same circumstances. Every marriage is unique, and everyone’s experiences are different. However, when you notice these signs, they may be signals for you to seriously reflect and take action.

You are not a failed wife. You deserve to be treated with honesty, loyalty, and respect.

Hi there! Iā€™m Rebecca, the face behind this dynamic sphere.  I aim to help women navigate the challenges and uncertainties that can arise in their marriages.

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