Our marriage was once filled with struggles. We would argue over trivial matters, and the emotional distance between us grew over time. I realized that we needed a change, a way to reignite the spark of love. So, I proposed the idea of this “21-Day Love Challenge,” hoping to express our love and care through daily challenges.
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The core idea of this challenge is to express love for each other through the challenges every day. The challenges include intimate dates, writing a gratitude letter, doing something romantic together, and more. Each day’s challenge is simple yet practical, but it effectively enhances the emotional connection between us.
Clearly, we succeeded! Our marriage has once again become sweet. Below are the detailed contents of our “21-Day Love Challenge.”
Day 1 Write a Gratitude Letter – Write a gratitude letter to your partner, expressing how much you appreciate everything they have done. I know it may be challenging if your relationship is going through a tough time, but try to focus on the positive aspects they have shown in the past!
Day 2 Leave Little Notes – Leave love notes in places where you know your partner will find them, such as the fridge door, their keyboard, or their coffee mug.
Day 3 Give a Small Gift – Surprise them with a small gift. It doesn’t have to be expensive; a piece of chocolate or a movie ticket will do, as long as it shows your care.
Day 4 Sweet Lunch Date – Have a romantic lunch together. If you have children, you can plan a date at an amusement park, where you can enjoy each other’s company while the kids have fun.
Day 5 Dress Up – Since I am a homemaker, I usually wear comfortable sportswear and rarely wear makeup. But occasionally, I make an effort to dress up and remind my husband that he has a beautiful wife at home. It also serves as a reminder to myself that “you’re prettier.”
Day 6 Show Your Hot And Flirty – Wear a sexy dress that will make him unable to resist you.
Day 7 Play a Game Together – Find a game that you both used to love playing and relive those feelings.
Day 8 Sing to Him – He used to love listening to your singing, didn’t he?
Day 9 Give Extra Compliments to Your Partner Today.
Day 10 Have a Sweet Date Like When You Were Dating – What activities did you enjoy the most during the honeymoon phase? Watching a movie or going shopping? Experience it again!
Day 11 Intimacy – You know, a happy marriage cannot be without intimacy.
Day 12 Let It Go – If your spouse does something that bothers you today, choose to overlook it.
Day 13 Call Him at an Unexpected Time – Call him out of the blue while he’s at work and let him know how much you miss him.
Day 14 Send 10 Different Texts to Him Today, expressing how much you miss him.
Day 15 Laugh Together – Share your favorite YouTube videos and laugh together!
Day 16 Write a Love Letter to Your Spouse.
Day 17 Go Shopping Together like you did when you were dating. Pick out things you like and playfully let him pay for them.
Day 18 Do Something You Know He’ll Like – Organize his desk, tidy up his books. You know your partner best, so do something you think he desires and surprise him.
Day 19 Share the Heartwarming Moments you had when you were falling in love.
Day 20 Try Something New Together.
Day 21 Tell Him, “I truly love you.”