From Housework to Sex, Here’s How Relationship Contracts Can Help Couples

The article challenges the notion of romantic love as something uncontrollable and emphasizes the importance of actively choosing and nurturing relationships. It discusses Mandy Len Catron’s perspective on love and her book, “How To Fall in Love With Anyone.” Catron suggests relationship contracts as a tool for communication and collaboration. The article provides tips on creating a relationship contract, including managing expectations, setting parameters, writing things down, and embracing agency. It emphasizes that a relationship contract is not about perfection but about open dialogue and understanding between partners.